Mariann Selking

Mariann (Brite) Selking, 101, surrounded by family at home, went to meet her Lord and Savior on the morning of Holy Tuesday, March 26, 2024. She was born Feb. 4, 1923, on a farm near Preble to Julius and Gertrude (Geels) Brite. She was married May 6, 1944, to Reinhard “Reiney” Selking.
She was a member of the St. Mary of the Assumption Catholic Church, the Rosary Society, the Liturgical and Arts Environment Committee, the Catholic Ladies of Columbus, and the Beautification Committee. She was also a greeter, Eucharistic minister and Homebound minister.
She was a charter member of the Preble Volunteer Fireman's Auxiliary. She was an active 4-H leader for 50 years. She and her husband were honored with being named Grand Marshals at the 1988 4-H Fair.
Her hobbies included crafts, sewing, gardening and oil painting. She also designed and made bridal and First Communion headpieces for family and friends.
They were the original owners of Decatur Truck and Tractor. Her first job there was driving the truck delivering parts and equipment. She then moved into the administrative and bookkeeping side. In retirement, she enjoyed cleaning the dealership shop. In her later twilight years, she delighted in the fact that the dealership, now Selking International and owned by her sons, offered her light paperwork to keep her hands and mind bright and alert.
As a young girl, she enjoyed playing music. Along with her siblings, the Brite Family Band and the Sagebrush Ramblers, she entertained across Indiana and Ohio. Mariann was a gifted musician and played several instruments. She was well known for her square dance calling at weddings and parties for years.
Mariann's greatest love was God and family. She was always a champion for the underdog, often doing unassuming and anonymous acts of kindness. In her later years, sending cards, offering prayers and waving hello to people coming and going from church was her ministry to others.
Each and every morning, she started her day by opening the front door and saying out loud, “Good morning, God!” She was very blessed with a group of loving caregivers who gave her cherished companionship at home throughout her final days.
She was very loved by her family and will be greatly missed.
She is survived by her four sons, Jerry (Wanda) Selking; Jim (Jane) Selking; John (Jane) Selking; and Joe (Ellen) Selking; three daughters, Judy (Chuck) Schiffli; Jeannie (Rick) Smith; and Joann (Mark) Okoniewski; 25 grandchildren; and 48 great-grandchildren with three on the way.
She was preceded in death by her parents, husband on Jan. 30, 2016; infant daughter Janice; three brothers, Roman, John, and Al Brite; and three sisters, Francis Griffiths; Justine Walters; and Sister Regina (Margaret) Brite, CSA.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, April 2 from 3-7 p.m. at Haggard-Hirschy & Zelt Funeral Home with a reciting of the Holy Rosary at 2:30 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered Wednesday, April 3 at 10 a.m. at St. Mary of the Assumption Catholic Church with Father Stephen Colchin and Father David Ruppert concelebrating. Visitation will also be one hour prior to Mass in the St. Mary's Parish Hall.
Memorials may be made to the Adams County Community Foundation/Selking Family Foundation, St. Joseph Catholic School, St. Mary's Catholic Church, or Masses.
Arrangements provided by Haggard-Hirschy & Zelt Funeral Home in Decatur. To sign the guest book, click on www.hhzfuneralhome.com.